谢谢邀请!我是德村@村云村语 ,很高兴回答这个问题!
家庭矛盾是个很难解决的问题,特别是小两口刚结婚,还没有分家的话,涉及到方方面面的人和事就更多。我的建议是趁早分开过日子!
本来,老公他们一家子,经过这么多年来的共同生活,在公公的“一元化领导”下,已经基本协调和稳定,现在娶进了个儿媳妇,立刻形成了大小、新老两个家庭“核心”,加之儿媳妇刚进门,和他们一家人的生疏,所以,如何处理好大家庭的人事关系和经济关系,就需要所有家庭成员拿出足够的水平和充分的耐心了!
从长远来看,为了避免家庭矛盾的发生,防止小矛盾、小摩擦引发大矛盾、大摩擦,最明智的做法还是老小分家过日子比较好,既各过各的日子,独立核算家庭经济收入,又有现成的、类似的生活模式可供参考。说实在的,不分家、两代人(不久的将来变成3代人)共在一起生活,协调和睦的生活模式和婆媳相处的经验确实难找!而与其在小矛盾演变成大矛盾时,才不得不被迫分家,不如趁早分开,各自清静了!
以上是我对这个问题的答复意见,仅供参考,希望对你有所帮助!
张根硕,1987年9月26日出生于韩国首尔,韩国男演员、歌手、主持人。汉阳大学硕博连读、汉阳大学慈善教授。
2010年,主演《玛丽外宿中》并演唱了《Hello Hello》、《I will promise you》、《My precious》、《拜托了,My Bus!》
那首歌是《拜托了,My Bus》
韩文歌词:
Like crazy Just Run Run Run Running
Go Go 부탁해 My Bus To the Stage
My Heart is Beat Beat Beat Beating
Boom Boom 심장까지 들려오는 허리케인 사운드
높이 Jump Jump Jump 파란 하늘 위로
멀리 Quick Quick Quick
달려가는 거야 Start You and I
날이 선 머리끝 흐린 Telepathy
날 조이는 꿈 (I’m crazy now)
달콤한 Jasmine 향 또 반복되는 Stress
I want to be free
꿈의 Paradise OH OHOH
그곳으로 갈 테야 My friend
Don’t think Just run OH OHOH
꿈꾸는 나의 바다로
Like crazy Just Run Run Run Running
Go Go 부탁해 My Bus To the Stage
My Heart is Beat Beat Beat Beating
Boom Boom 심장까지 들려오는 허리케인 사운드
높이 Jump Jump Jump 파란 하늘 위로
멀리 Quick Quick Quick
달려가는 거야 Start You and I
Never to fall down
지독한 연기 늘 멍한 Television
날 깨우는 Noise (I’m tired now)
쓰디쓴 혀끝과 또 꿈틀대는 Strain
I want to be free
꿈의 Blue Sky OH OHOH
그곳으로 갈 테야 My friend
새처럼 Fly to the sky
너의 날개를 타고
Like crazy Just Run Run Run Running
Go Go 부탁해 My Bus To the Stage
My Heart is Beat Beat Beat Beating
Boom Boom 심장까지 들려오는 허리케인 사운드
높이 Jump Jump Jump 파란 하늘 위로
멀리 Quick Quick Quick 달려가는 거야
Just Run Run Run Never to fall down
부탁해 My Bus
Never to fall down
부탁해 My Bus
【拜托了,My Bus】中文歌词
like crazy just
run run run running
go go 拜托了 my bus
to the stage
my heart is
best best best besting
boom boom 心脏都传来hurricane sound
高处jump jump jump
向蔚蓝的天空
向远处quick quick quick
奔跑吧start you and i
时光流逝telepathy
带着我的梦(I’m carzy now)
甜甜的Jasmine香气
反复地stress
i want to be free
梦的Paradise oh
我就是要去那个地方my friend
DON’t think just run OH
去往梦想中我的大海
like crazy just
run run run running
go go 拜托了 my bus
to the stage
my heart is
best best best besting
boom boom 心脏都传来hurricane sound
高处jump jump jump
向蔚蓝的天空
向远处quick quick quick
奔跑吧start you and i
Never to fall down
演技厉害总是发呆的Television
叫醒我的Noise I’m tired now
苦涩的舌尖和又一次搅乱梦想的strain
i want to be free
梦的Blue sky oh
我就是要去那个地方my friend
像小鸟一样fly to the sky
乘着我的翅膀
like crazy just
run run run run